{"id":67805,"date":"2022-12-15T09:46:11","date_gmt":"2022-12-15T16:46:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/?p=67805"},"modified":"2022-12-15T11:21:49","modified_gmt":"2022-12-15T18:21:49","slug":"dark-beginnings-turn-bright-for-dual-major-graduate-who-found-a-passion-for-ethics","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/dark-beginnings-turn-bright-for-dual-major-graduate-who-found-a-passion-for-ethics\/","title":{"rendered":"Dark beginnings turn bright for dual major graduate who found purpose in philanthropy and ethics"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Changing majors, finding a passion for business and ethics and getting married are experiences that have colored recent graduate <strong>Darby House<\/strong>\u2019s college journey. She is now graduating with two bachelors\u2019: one in management and another in psychology. Now, she is saying auf wiedersehen to the U.S. and is headed to Germany.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/darby1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-67817 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/darby1.jpg\" alt=\"Darby House\" width=\"212\" height=\"318\" srcset=\"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/darby1.jpg 624w, https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/darby1-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 212px) 100vw, 212px\" \/><\/a>House and her family moved to Phoenix from Alabama when she was six months old.\u00a0 Like many graduates, one of the reasons she chose NAU was the landscape. It also helped that Flagstaff was close enough to visit her family, but far enough away that she was able to develop her independence. House also wanted to make a difference in the world and believed education was an excellent way to do that. When she was fourteen years old, her best friend\u2019s father killed her and her mother, and then himself, and House\u2019s childhood was turned upside down.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGetting the news was devastating; this influenced my life a lot. It never occurred to me that a father could kill his daughter, and I never wanted that to happen to a child ever again. I helped start the charity Audra\u2019s Angels, a part of Fresh Start. We held a lip sync battle to raise money for a cabin for the girl scouts. I loved putting together the event, and I love public speaking.\u201d House combined her passions for ethics and education to help reduce the amount of tragic violence and felt that this created a significant shift in her passion for ethics. She never wants anyone to live their life unhappily or have their life and happiness taken from them.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe wanted to create a program that explained the red flags in relationships, and that controlling and abusive behavior is never deserved or acceptable,\u201d House said. \u201cThrough the fundraiser and the amazing help of the girl scouts and my parents, we raised about $50,000.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As a child, House wanted to do something that made people happy. She loved the idea of being the mail carrier because who isn\u2019t happy to receive mail? \u201cThen, I wanted to be the Subway sandwich artist because everyone loves getting food; then, I wanted to become a doctor to help people.\u201d Now, with the experiences of her past and the academic and professional development during her time at NAU, she\u2019s confident she can change people&#8217;s lives on a grander scale. \u201cI want to work in ethics in leadership and change people\u2019s working conditions. Ethics has been a passion of mine for years now, so I\u2019d be thrilled if I can incorporate it into my career,\u201d House said.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Darby_WFamily-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-67825 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Darby_WFamily-1.jpg\" alt=\"Darby with family\" width=\"298\" height=\"301\" srcset=\"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/Darby_WFamily-1.jpg 624w, https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/Darby_WFamily-1-297x300.jpg 297w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 298px) 100vw, 298px\" \/><\/a>House\u2019s mother and father, who work as a dentist and lawyer respectively, significantly influenced her ethical development and taught her to take action. \u201cMy parents are both incredible people to whom I look up. When they see an issue, they start proposing ideas and solutions. When COVID happened, my mom was actively taking measures to adjust the medical field to the virus to keep patients safe. \u201cMy dad also trains and works with athletes for Olympic weightlifting. He pushed for the treatment of underage athletes to be improved and has made significant contributions to the ethics in weightlifting.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She began her studies as a biomed and psychology major; however, that quickly changed when she took a business class and realized that was her true passion. For two semesters she served as an SI leader for ACC205, working closely with <strong>Jane Gilbert<\/strong>, assistant manager of supplemental instruction program at NAU\u2019s Academic Success Centers.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhether she was working with students taking BIO 181 or those learning business law (ACC 205), Darby showed up to her SI sessions wearing a huge smile\u2014totally lighting up the room,\u201d Gilbert said. \u201cAs a group facilitator, Darby knows what she is doing. She uses questions strategically to walk students through their own critical thinking process. Darby routinely stretches herself and takes on roles that will help her grow. Cheerful, positive and a joy to work with, Darby has been a leader among her peers at NAU and I\u2019m excited to see where life takes her\u2014to Germany and beyond.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>House, who became an SI leader because she wanted to work with people within business and possibly specialize in organizational behavior, considers Gilbert, her supervisor for five semesters, one of her most significant influences at NAU. \u201cShe has done a lot to help me improve myself, so I can be a great leader wherever I go,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_67816\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-67816\" style=\"width: 179px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Darby_Corgi.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-67816\" src=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Darby_Corgi.jpg\" alt=\"Darby'sCorgi with grad cap\" width=\"179\" height=\"239\" srcset=\"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/Darby_Corgi.jpg 624w, https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/Darby_Corgi-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 179px) 100vw, 179px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-67816\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Darby House&#8217;s corgi, Pebbles.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>House\u2019s time as an SI leader includes some of her favorite memories from NAU, noting how much fun she had working with students, mostly those in their first year, and the satisfaction that came from them understanding a concept or new life skill. \u201cAnother one of my favorite moments was when I went to the carnival and the bonfire this year with my roommates, and all my students got to meet my dog,\u201d House said.<\/p>\n<p>A new professional area in the field of ethics opened to her when she went to work for NAU\u2019s new Institute for Public and Professional Ethics in Leadership. Working with <strong>Charn McAllister<\/strong>, director of the NAU Institute for Public &amp; Professional Ethics in Leadership, she became immersed in the subject of ethics applied to fields like business.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt&#8217;s true that we sometimes can overlook the impact our students make on our community, but it is impossible not to marvel at all Darby has accomplished during her time here. The mentoring and tutoring she gave her fellow students helped others find success; the dedication she showed to our\u00a0newly formed Institute for Public and Professional Ethics in Leadership helped it reach more students and alumni,\u201d McAllister said. \u201cThe giving nature she displays in everything she does shone through most in the touching and substantial tribute to her lost friend that will educate young girls for decades to come are only just scratching the service of why Darby is such an outstanding graduate and representative of NAU.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Her work at the institute created some of her proudest accomplishments at NAU. The experiences were many and varied, but creating a website for the new program stands out as a particularly important experience. She noted McAllister as having been a significant influence because he gave her a position that enabled her to work in business ethics and provided her the opportunity to gain valuable experience for her future career.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Darby_Wedding2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-67812\" src=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Darby_Wedding2.jpg\" alt=\"Darby House Wedding\" width=\"624\" height=\"416\" srcset=\"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/Darby_Wedding2.jpg 624w, https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/Darby_Wedding2-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 624px) 100vw, 624px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the midst of her double major, jobs and philanthropy work, House maintained a long-distance relationship\u2014the couple was married in February 2022 during the middle of her senior year. \u201cWe met in high school and managed to do long distance when he left for the U.S. Air Force. Looking back, I would have gotten married early so I could be with my husband during the pandemic, but the whole wedding process was a great experience with event planning,\u201d she said. \u201cThe experience influenced my academic career by my being able to go abroad while studying online at NAU. I am now moving to Germany to be with my husband where we will be stationed until 2025.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Darby_HoldingHerCorgi_Holiday.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-67808 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Darby_HoldingHerCorgi_Holiday.jpg\" alt=\"Darby House with her Corgi\" width=\"212\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/Darby_HoldingHerCorgi_Holiday.jpg 624w, https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2022\/12\/Darby_HoldingHerCorgi_Holiday-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 212px) 100vw, 212px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>House has some ambitious future goals, including consulting for a company (hopefully in the area of ethics), visiting every Disneyland in the world and eventually starting her own business. When she\u2019s not hanging out with her corgi, Pebbles, she\u2019s having fun with one of her many hobbies: rollerblading, volleyball, drawing, archery, painting, rock climbing and bike riding to name a few. \u201cI am good at about \u00bc of them. I believe that you don\u2019t need to be good at something to enjoy doing it, and that is a hill I am willing to die on,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-52788\" src=\"http:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/wordpresst\/uploads\/sites\/153\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/NAU_primary-281_3514-300x213.png\" alt=\"NAU logo\" width=\"139\" height=\"99\" srcset=\"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2018\/10\/NAU_primary-281_3514-300x213.png 300w, https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2018\/10\/NAU_primary-281_3514-768x546.png 768w, https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2018\/10\/NAU_primary-281_3514-600x426.png 600w, https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/402\/2018\/10\/NAU_primary-281_3514.png 905w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 139px) 100vw, 139px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">Cynthia Gerber | NAU Communications<br \/>\n(928) 523-7341 | <a href=\"mailto:Cynthia.Gerber@nau.edu\">Cynthia.Gerber@nau.edu<\/a><br \/>\n<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"search-results-excerpt-link\" href=\"https:\/\/in.nau.edu\/news\/dark-beginnings-turn-bright-for-dual-major-graduate-who-found-a-passion-for-ethics\/\">Changing majors, finding a passion for business and ethics and getting married are experiences that have colored recent graduate Darby House\u2019s college journey. She is now graduating with two bachelors\u2019: one in management and another in psychology. Now, she is saying auf wiedersehen to the U.S. and is headed to Germany. 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